"I find myself as the dogfight king of controversy. It's not a place where I'm used to being, nor do I know really how to handle it. But, being the type of guy who likes to find solutions for problems, here goes my best attempt." ..... these are your words jacklpe.
Tobacco wanted me to think it was my best best mate, when really it took the piss and was a wicked master. I used to get caught without, so I would wait until the craving got mental and go through my car ashtray, getting black fingers making roll ups from spent ones, yuk, really yuk, and I felt sorry doing it too. A bit like your bottle, what a thing to have to drag around in your life. Boy it's a painful fight, it hurts for a short while, but it ends, quicker than you think. I treated the problem by physically fighting back. No fag in face, its my choice. I wanted it gone. NO ONE had any effect on me with wise words, it was down to me to find a solution. It's your fight I'm afraid, it's a stubborn S.O.A.B, you have to be too. I don't recon most smokers ever 'give up', we just have liberated time off. I gave up for nearly 3 years so I was a non smoker. One day I had one, then another, then yeah Im back on it. But 3 years was bliss. Good luck.
Pint of spit please and I fancy a humble pie.